My son’s preschool wraps up this week, so I’ve been on the hunt for a nanny to fill some hours over the summer. (And maybe give my husband and I a much needed date-night here and there.) It has actually been a fairly easy process, despite my initial reticence, and it has reminded me of an experience I had a number of years ago.
I was in a job funk – the work wasn’t engaging, the company culture was toxic and my boss was… well, let’s just say “eccentric”. I was beat down and ready to go.
At one point during my endless job board browsing, I found a posting for a nanny position. Get paid to hang out with two cute little girls? Be a positive role model? No commute, no stress, no power trips? I was in.
Luckily, as I was getting ready to put in my notice, my then boyfriend (now husband) looked at me and said “Honey, I know you’re unhappy, but let’s slow down. You have an MBA and a resume full of business experience. This is a BABYSITTING job.”
Um, yeah. Reality check.
When you hate where you work, the temptation to do something – ANYTHING – different is strong. You just want to be free. And, yes, a “vacation” job outside your career path can be fun and maybe even a strategic way to gain perspective and refocus. But it can also be a crutch that keeps you from finding your real path.
If you find yourself tempted to make a dramatic change, make sure it’s for the right reasons. Remember that real freedom – the freedom to find engaging work that matters – doesn’t come from moving backwards. It comes from pushing yourself, staying true to your vision and not giving up when things get tough.
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Another great post and reminder for me! I’m still on the job hunt, and have several times considered just applying for a barista position or something similar. My boyfriend always says he’d support me if I really just need out of the house, but that I do have a master’s degree and it’s not in pouring coffee. Thankfully, I have been keeping somewhat busy with networking interviews!